The final blow was Friday, my ex wife came to pick up the kids while I was still out. I told her it was ok to check the attic for Emmas snow pants, and then they could find Emmas slippers(normal stuff), so Emma looked around while the ex followed her around. When I got home GF and rotten 14 yo claim my ex was rifling through the 14yos dresser, total nonsense. Then my ex said the whole attic smelled like cat pee and turd, huge problem with me. As the argument went into Saturday, I accidentally used the word "wife" instead of "ex" wife, I've done this a lot over the years. So she flips out and accuses me of being in love and having an affair with my ex. This is after being accused the other day of having an affair with a "friend girl" of mine that is my daughters best friends mom. Remember, I've been mr. mom for over 4 years and know all the ladies in town from school and recreation stuff.
But the topper was when she let her 14yo scream at me and laugh at me while I stumbled around with the wife vs ex wife thing. She was swearing and throwing F-bombs and her mom was cheering her on. All of her kids are slobs, wont do chores and and swear around my kids all the time.